The twelve astrology signs are composed of the four
elements of fire (3), earth (3), air (3) and water (3). If you
have planets in signs that are not compatible, they are out of
sync, and can cause some serious problems in your relationships.
For example, if you are a woman with your Sun in Cancer
(water) and your Mars is in Aquarius (air), your heart (Sun) is
out of sync with your passion (Mars). This means that you love a
man who is emotional (water) and has a love of the home and
family (Cancer). But you are physcially attracted to an Aquarian
man (air) who is detached emotionally and totally unpredictable.
He has no interest in the home and family. In this case, you may
become confused about your relationships because you may be
going after men who cannot fulfill your Cancer need for a home
and family life. If you understand this about yourself, your
motivations, desires, and attitudes will make more sense to you.
At this point, you may be wondering "What can I do about
these conflicting needs? How can I find a man who is compatible
with me"? The obvious answer is to find someone who has the same
kind of "attitudes" (signs) as you. You would need to consult an
astrologer to help you determine the real attitudes of a man you
are attracted to and avoid being deceived by your attractions.
If you are a man and have your Venus in Gemioni (air) and
your Moon is in Scorpio (water), your heart loves a woman who is
sensual, loyal and intense. But your Venus in Gemini leads you
to go after a woman who is cute, clever and very stimulating
mentally. But if you expect deep, emotional responses from her
(which your Moon requires), she will simply fly away. She will
not be around for you. Actually, what you want is a woman who is
bright and intellectual, but very intense, loyal and sensual a
combination of both types of women. You, too, would would need
to consult an astrologer to help you determine the real
attitudes of a woman you are attracted to and avoid being
deceived by your own attractions to her.
I have merely scratched the surface of the complexities of
the signs and their infinite combinations. But with just this
little bit of insight you can find out if you have any signs out
of sync and what they mean for you. A skilled astrologer can
help you make these determinations, or you can learn ow to this
yourself.
© 2005 Randall Curtis
Randall Curtis is a professional astrologer with
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